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How to Change Your Relationship With Rest

How to Change Your Relationship With Rest

Most people think of rest as a reward.
Something you earn after the to-do list is done.

The problem? The list is never done.
There’s always another email, another errand, another demand for your attention. And when rest keeps getting pushed off, your body notices—before you do.

From a functional medicine perspective, chronic under-resting is more than just an energy issue. It’s a stress physiology issue. When you’re constantly in “go mode,” your brain signals your adrenal glands to keep pumping out stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline.

Over time, this starts to impact key systems—your sleep-wake cycle, immune function, thyroid balance, blood sugar, and even sex hormones.

At first, it’s subtle:

  • Brain fog
  • A shorter fuse
  • Feeling wired but tired
  • That constant sense of being “on,” even when nothing’s wrong

Then the signals get louder:

  • Sleep becomes harder
  • Energy crashes
  • Moods swing
  • You stop feeling like yourself

This isn’t laziness. It’s physiological dysregulation.

woman resting

In functional medicine, we often look to the HPA axis—the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis—which manages your body’s stress response. When stress is ongoing, this system doesn’t fail—it adapts.

Your body shifts into a survival mode, prioritizing immediate demands over long-term health. That might look like:

  • Flattened cortisol rhythms
  • Energy crashes in the afternoon
  • Difficulty waking or falling asleep
  • Mood dips or brain fog
  • Cravings for sugar, salt, or caffeine

These are signs that your system is trying to conserve resources—not because it’s broken, but because it’s protecting you.

At that point, rest isn’t just helpful—it’s non-negotiable.

It’s how cortisol normalizes. How your nervous system recalibrates. How your body regains the sense of safety it needs to function properly. And it’s not just about sleeping more—though deep sleep is critical for adrenal recovery.

It’s about building in intentional pauses that disrupt the stress loop:

  • Breathwork to shift out of sympathetic overdrive
  • Gentle movement like yoga or walking in nature
  • Eating in a calm, present state to support digestion
  • Saying no to energy-draining obligations
  • Resting before you’re exhausted

We have to stop waiting until we crash to rest. Instead, we need to create micro-moments throughout the day that signal to the body:
You’re safe. You can slow down now.

Because healing—whether it’s gut repair, hormone balance, or emotional resilience—requires a foundation of safety. And that starts by redefining rest: not as a luxury, but as a form of self-regulation.

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